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Summer Fun



                                                                  Like Nothing




                                                                            They’ve



                                                                   Experienced



                                                                              Before!





                                                                                By Shea Ann DeJarnette,
                                                                         Extension 4-H Youth Development Agent


      Lumberton, N.C. -- Summer was a great time of year for me as   occasion, like a Saturday when there were no other campers
      a child.  I got to go to the community swimming pool, play ten-  and I was allowed access to the phone (long distance calls – no
      nis, golf, and ride my bicycle as much as I wanted.  My parents   cell phones back in the day). Of course, I could write home
      had this theory if I was not engaged in activities I would be in   whenever I wanted, but rarely did.
      front of the TV, and that was not acceptable.  So they signed me
      up for lessons, five weeks of overnight camp, and anything else   I tell you all of this so you can understand, in the role I am in
      they could find to make sure I was engaged in the world around   right now, why taking youth to camp is so important to me. I
      me and not too close to the TV set.                        feel like every child should have this opportunity.  North Caro-
                                                                 lina 4-H is in a unique position having three residential camps
      So when I tell this story, the first thing I notice is people’s eyes   to choose from: Millstone,  which is located  in Richmond
      get really wide when I say five weeks of overnight camp.  The   County, The Eastern 4-H Center located in Columbia, and Bet-
      first question is, “You mean spread out all summer, not all at   sy-Jeff Penn 4-H Center located in Reidsville.  For the last 20
      one time?”  No, I usually left at the end of June and flew (yes,
      on an airplane, by myself) to Erie, Pennsylvania, to a camp
      my mother attended called Camp Glinodo.  It was run by the
      Benedictine Nuns, who had their Mother House down the road
      from the camp.  We went horseback riding, swimming, played
      tennis, took part in archery, did arts and crafts, and had camp
      fires and all sorts of fun stuff.  More than that, it was the place I
      learned I needed to make my bed, pick up after myself,  learned
      to do laundry,  made lifelong friends (yes, that I still communi-
      cate with today) and I had people to help guide me as I started
      making decisions on my own.  I enjoyed being at this camp so
      much I became a Counselor-in-Training, moved up to Coun-
      selor, and then Head Counselor.  I spent 11 summers at this
      camp and they saw me grow up – the good, bad, and ugly of it
      all – and still welcomed me back.

      Before you ask (because this is everyone’s next question), no,
      I did not get homesick. This adventure gave me some freedom,
      and a way to figure out who I was.  However, my parents did
      get campsick.  I received the color comics in the mail each
      week,  I  got  lots  of  letters (this  was  well  before  email), and
      other treats arrived while I was away from home that made me
      feel loved.  We did not talk while I was gone, except for a rare
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